A Likkle of This & A Little of Dat

How Art Speaks Louder Than Words with Guest Dubi

Welcome to another soul-stirring episode of A Likkle of This & A Little A Dat! Today, we’re tapping into the transformative power of art and how it speaks volumes—even when no words are spoken.
Join your girl Phi in a heartfelt conversation with special guest, ⁠Adubi “Dubi” Akinola⁠—a brilliant visual artist using his canvas to challenge, heal, and uplift. From social justice advocacy to artistic healing, this episode is all about using creativity as a tool for truth and transformation.
🕒 CHAPTERS00:00 – Intro02:11 – Art as a Voice: Expressing Without Words03:21 – Art and Social Justice Advocacy04:56 – The Healing Power of Art07:23 – Art and Authentic Self-Expression09:58 – Mentorship for the Next Generation13:06 – Connecting with Dubi17:27 – You Teach Yourself What You Want To Do19:00 – Final Thoughts from Phiona20:57 – Thank You for Your Support
What You’ll Take Away: - Why art is a universal language that allows us to express what words sometimes can’t. - How art and activism go hand in hand when creating real change. - Stories of resilience and healing through creativity and artistic self-expression. - Mentorship lessons and why the next generation of artists needs to be unapologetically themselves.
💬 Let’s Keep the Conversation GoingWhat’s your creative outlet? How do you express your truth without saying a word? Drop it in the comments or tag us on Instagram—we’re building a space for authentic expression, community, and growth. Art isn’t just about talent—it’s about freedom, healing, and power. Whether you're an artist, an advocate, or a truth-teller, this episode will leave you inspired to speak with your whole self.
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Thank you for tuning in. You’re one of a kind. Enough respect. Until next time—if you can’t be authentic, you’re not being YOU. 💕 

How I Balance Family, Work & Community Effortlessly

Hey, loves! It’s your girl, Phi, back with another soulful episode of A Likkle of This and A Little of Dat. Today, we’re diving deep into the questions YOU sent in — all about balancing career, family, and personal purpose in a way that’s real, honest, and rooted in love.
We explore what balance truly looks like (hint: it’s not equal time!), why boundaries matter, how to care for yourself without guilt, and how to stay grounded when family support is missing. Plus, I’m sharing what it means to serve the community without starving your home, and why your purpose is not up for a vote.
Episode Highlights:
00:00 – Intro & Family Role in Busy Life01:09 – Continued Reflection on Family’s Role02:27 – Balancing Career, Goals, and Family08:28 – Dealing with Lack of Support from Family13:37 – Is Self-Care Selfish?14:38 – Reconnecting with Family After Life Changes19:36 – Final Thoughts on Family and Ambition20:34 – Outro
Key Takeaways: ✨ Balance is about being intentional, not dividing hours equally 🧭 Boundaries are an act of self-respect — set them with love and without guilt 💖 Self-care isn’t selfish — it’s the foundation for showing up fully for others 🔥 Your purpose is not up for a vote — own it, protect it, walk in it 🏡 Don’t serve the community at the expense of your home — both matter
Closing Thoughts: Balance isn’t something we find — it’s something we create. Through habits, passion, boundaries, and intention, you can live a life that reflects who you are and what you love. Don’t apologize for being real. And remember: when you show up with love, everything shifts.
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Until next time, it’s your girl, Phi. Enough respect. And remember: if you can’t be authentic, you’re not being you. 💕

Finding Your Voice: Lessons from Elders with The Honourable Dr. Jean Augustine

Hey, loves! It’s your girl, Phi, back with another powerful episode of A Likkle of This and A Little of Dat. Today, I sit down with The Honourable Dr. Jean Augustine to talk about finding your voice, honoring our elders, and building a stronger community.
In part 2, we explore the importance of knowing our history, learning from those who paved the way, and continuing the fight for progress. Dr. Augustine shares wisdom on intergenerational learning, staying connected to our roots, and why true advocacy needs more than allies—it needs accomplices.
Episode Highlights:
 [00:00] - Intro [01:58] - It Was Not Always So [07:06] - A Need To Talk To Elders [13:22] - Finding Your Voice [19:07] - Loss in Advocacy Journey [22:38] - Loneliness yet Longevity in Advocacy [25:33] - True Authenticity in Being Yourself [28:14] - Remember You Are Part of Community [29:47] - Closing Thoughts
Key Takeaways:
🌱 Know your history—understanding the past helps us shape the future. 🗣 Speak up early—your voice matters more than you think. 💡 Elders hold wisdom—listen, learn, and carry their lessons forward. 💪 Advocacy takes courage—change won’t happen without boldness. 🤝 Be an accomplice, not just an ally—real change requires action.
Closing Thoughts:
Every opportunity we have today exists because someone before us fought for it. Now, it’s our turn to continue the work, build community, and empower the next generation.
What’s one thing you’ll take from this conversation? Let’s keep the dialogue going! Rate, share, and follow A Likkle of This and A Little of Dat to stay connected.
Until next time, it’s your girl, Phi. Enough respect. And remember: if you can’t be authentic, you’re not being you. 💕

The Power of Speaking Your Truth with The Honourable Dr. Jean Augustine

This week, on 'A Likkle of This & A Little A Dat', I’m beyond honoured to sit down with the legendary Dr. Jean Augustine—the first Black woman elected to the House of Commons in Canada. Dr. Augustine has been a fierce advocate for equity, representation, and amplifying Black voices, and today, she shares her incredible journey, the importance of speaking your truth, and why showing up authentically is essential for creating meaningful change.
In this episode, we explore:
Dr. Jean Augustine’s trailblazing path to Parliament and her fight to establish Black History Month in Canada.
The power of authenticity—why showing up as your true self matters, even when facing resistance.
How advocacy and leadership can shape policies, challenge norms, and build a more inclusive Canada.
Life lessons on confidence, resilience, and navigating spaces where you are the only Black voice at the table.
The importance of representation in media, education, and government
Dr. Augustine’s wisdom is a masterclass in leadership, perseverance, and using your voice to create impact. Whether you’re an activist, entrepreneur, creative, or simply looking for inspiration, this conversation is for YOU.
CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Intro00:33 - Welcome Message03:00 - The Comfort of Speaking06:29 - Looking for Opportunities09:45 - Every Job Is Good Work (As Long as It’s Legit!)13:05 - Believing in Data Collection & Research17:10 - The Creation of Black History Month in Canada21:30 - The Power of Speaking Your Truth
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Dr. Augustine’s story is a powerful reminder that speaking up, showing up, and staying true to yourself can drive real change. What part of her journey resonated with you the most? Drop a comment below—we’re all about learning and growing together! 
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Remember, If you can’t be authentic, you’re not being YOU. Thanks for tuning in, and we’ll see you in the next episode! 💕

Money and Confidence: Why They Go Hand in Hand

Hey, love’s! It’s your girl, Phi, and welcome back to A Likkle of This and A Little of Dat! In today’s authentic conversation, we’re keeping it real about finances, relationships, and the mindset shifts that truly empower personal growth. Whether you’re struggling with budgeting, feeling the pressure to “keep up,” or simply looking for practical tips to manage your money and boost your self-esteem, this episode is packed with value! 
Here's what you'll gain from this episode:  - Honest discussions on how money impacts confidence, relationships, and mental health.  - Practical budgeting tips to prioritize self-care, set boundaries, and tackle financial stress.  - Real talk about cultural and societal pressures surrounding money and materialism.  - Strategies to break free from guilt, redefine success, and build authentic community.  - Insights from Carolyn, the budgeting queen, on creating emergency funds and mastering financial literacy.
💬 Join the conversation: What resonated most with you? Have you struggled with money and confidence? Share your thoughts below—we’re here to learn and grow together!
Episode Highlights
02:02 - Carolyn's Introduction04:52 - What it is You Try To Reach09:09 - Take an Assessment of Where You are13:21 - Setup an Emergency Fund20:28 - Setting Limitations25:17 - Life Insurance to Place in Your Budget33:25 - Carolyn's Podcast “Elevate Your Paycheck”35:10 - Final Thoughts
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Thank you for tuning in to A Likkle of This and A Little of Dat! If this episode inspired you, share, and follow the podcast. Until next time, it’s your girl, Phi. Enough respect. And remember: if you can’t be authentic, you’re not being you. 💕

The Key to Real Friendships Without Phoniness with Stephanie

Hey y’all, it’s your girl Phi, bringing you another soul-nourishing conversation on "A Likkle of This & A Little A Dat"! Today, I’m sitting down with my amazing friend Talent Partner - Stephanie Tomais to talk about something that’s at the heart of everything we do here—authenticity. We’re diving deep into what it means to have genuine friendships, how cultural differences shape our relationships, and why so many people are afraid to have real, unfiltered conversations.
We’re keeping it all the way real—no phoniness, no tiptoeing, just raw, honest talk about confidence, connection, and the power of showing up as your true self. If you’ve ever felt drained by fake friendships, struggled with setting boundaries, or wondered how to navigate cultural differences in your relationships, this episode is for you. Let’s get into it!
Episode Highlights
1:25 – What A Little of This and A Little of That is all about—real talk, real stories, real growth.4:12 – The foundation of Phi and Stephanie’s friendship—asking questions instead of making judgments.7:15 – The spiritual language, if he is willing that will happen.12:23 – We say what we mean, mean what we say. If you love me, call it out18:05 – Leave who they say they are. Coming off as intimidating. 23:44 – Showing up as yourself. Creating a sisterhood.26:55 – In every friendship, fills a part of you and creates you.28:30 – Closing words
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Whew, what a conversation! Remember, the people meant to be in your life will embrace you for who you are—no filters, no masks. So if you’re ever tempted to shrink yourself to fit in, don’t. The right ones will see you, love you, and grow with you. If you loved this episode, please rate, review, and share it with your friends! And as always, until next time, it’s your girl, Phi. Enough respect, and remember: if you can’t be authentic, you’re not being you. 💕 
 

Authentic Relationships: Connection, Intimacy & Self-Love

Hey, loves! It’s your girl, Phi, and welcome back to A Likkle of This and A Little of Dat! Today’s episode dives into a deep and transformative topic that touches us all: relationships, connection, and intimacy. Together with my sister and guest, Leticia Osei—a registered psychotherapist, nurse, and youth and mental health coordinator—we explore what it means to nurture meaningful relationships while staying true to yourself.
From embracing authentic womanhood in marriage to breaking free from societal pressures, this conversation is raw, inspiring, and packed with actionable insights. We’re talking about self-love, communication, and the challenges women face as they juggle countless roles while striving to remain authentic. Whether you’re single, married, a parent, or simply seeking deeper connections, this episode will resonate with you.
Episode Highlights
00:00 - Intro02:19 - Embracing Authentic Womanhood, Marriage, Identity10:55 - Importance of Self-Care, Boundaries, Wellbeing13:52 - Tips for Connection, Intimacy, Relationship Improvement18:00 - Last Words from Dr. Leticia, Closing Thoughts19:20 - Thank You for Tuning In, Acknowledgments
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Thank you for tuning in to another episode of A LIkkle of This and A Little of Dat! We’d love to hear your thoughts—what resonated with you? What steps are you taking to nurture your relationships and embrace your authentic self? Let us know! Thank you for your support! Until next time, it’s your girl, Phi. Enough respect, and remember: if you can’t be authentic, you’re not being you. 💕

The Hidden Power of Your Voice

Hey, loves! It's your girl, Phi, back with another powerful episode of A Likkle of This and A Little of Dat. Today, we’re diving into a topic that’s close to my heart: the power of owning your voice and your story. Inspired by the words of Malala Yousafzai and Maya Angelou, we’ll unpack the courage it takes to speak up, the challenges of vulnerability, and how embracing our truth not only liberates us but inspires others to do the same.
We’ll explore personal stories, the barriers to speaking up, and why vulnerability is essential for connection and growth. From my experiences as a social worker and entrepreneur to the lessons learned growing up in Jamaica, this episode is all about reclaiming your voice and standing in your truth unapologetically. If you've ever struggled with silence or fear, this conversation is for you.
Episode Highlights
[1:05] - A beautiful story by Maya Angelou and the fear of her voice.[2:01] - Finding the courage and confidence about your truth.[4:31] - Who feels it, knows it! Breaking the silence.[6:33] - The reward of vulnerability. [8:50] - Growing up in Jamaica[9:45] - Outro
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Thank you for joining me for this heartfelt and transformative conversation. I hope it inspired you to take that first step toward embracing your voice and owning your truth. I’d love to hear your thoughts—how did this move you today? What resonated with you? Let me know, because your voice matters. Until next time, take care of yourself and remember—if you’re not being authentic, you’re not being you. 💕

Rethinking Self-Care

Hey, it’s your girl, Phi! In this heartfelt episode, I’m joined by the amazing Leticia Osei—a psychotherapist, registered nurse, and youth and mental health coordinator in our Black community. Together, we get deep into one of my favorite topics: self-care. We talk about its true meaning, why it’s essential, and how to practice it even when life feels overwhelming. From setting boundaries to advocating for yourself, this conversation is all about putting yourself on your priority list unapologetically.
Leticia and I share personal stories, actionable tips, and candid reflections on why self-care goes beyond the superficial. If you’ve been wondering how to balance life’s demands without losing yourself in the process, this episode is for you.
Episode Highlights
[1:45] - Leticia reintroduces herself and shares her passion for mental health.[5:10] - Why Phi started practicing self-care as a young mom and the power of boundaries.[10:32] - Self-care vs. societal expectations: redefining what it means to truly take care of yourself.[14:58] - Leticia’s shares 5 practical self-care tips for busy lives and Phi’s 5 inexpensive self-care tips.[18:10] - Conclusion and wrap up
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Thank you for tuning in to another episode of A Likkle of This and a Little of Dat! Your support means the world to me. If you loved this conversation, don’t forget to share it with your friends, leave a review, and follow the show so you never miss an episode. Until next time, take care of yourself and remember—if you’re not being authentic, you’re not being you. 💕

Real Talk Starts Here: A Journey to Authenticity

Hey, y’all! It's your girl, Phi, kicking off the very first episode of A Likkle of This and a Little of Dat! This podcast is all about creating an open space for real conversations that feed your soul and help us all grow. Together, we’ll dive into lifestyle, relationships, confidence, and the ups and downs of life we can all relate to. It’s honest, vulnerable, and a whole vibe.
In this premiere episode, I’m sharing the heart and soul behind the podcast—what inspired me to start it and how I hope it connects with you. We’ll explore the meaning behind the name, reflect on moments that shaped my journey, and talk about the vision for this space. If you’re ready for a podcast that embraces authenticity and celebrates growth, this is it. Let’s grow, learn, and laugh together, y’all!
Episode Highlights
[1:15] - Welcome to A Likkle of This and a Little of Dat—what the podcast is all about.[3:08] - The Jamaican roots and meaning behind the name.[6:40] - Why creating a space for real, authentic conversations matters so much.[8:22] - My journey and the many hats I wear: mom, wife, entrepreneur, and more.[12:05] - Reflecting on courage and lessons from my 2022 mayoral run.[14:15] - Three quotes that inspire me to keep pushing forward.[16:40] - How your story can inspire others—let’s connect and share!
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Thank you so much for tuning in to the very first episode of A Likkle of This and a Little of Dat! I can’t wait to hear how this connected with you. If this inspired you, don’t forget to rate, follow, and share the podcast. Remember: “If you can’t be authentic, you’re not being you.” Let’s stay connected, and I’ll see you in the next episode. Nuff respect, y’all! 💕